WARNING: This article contains spoilers for episode 9 of Yuri!!! On ICE. If you haven’t seen it yet, catch up with the series today!
At the end of episode 9 of Yuri!!! On ICE, Yuri reunites with his coach Victor after spending the episode competing on the ice without his support. During this time, Yuri realizes how much Victor means to him as a mentor and as a figure of inspiration. Without Victor, Yuri could not have made it this far. And thus, Yuri is determined to the win gold at the Grand Prix Final with Victor at his side.
During their emotional reunion at the airport, Yuri expresses these feelings to Victor: “Please be my coach until I retire!”
And in response, Victor says…
Wait, what’s going on here? At first glance, this conversation doesn’t seem to connect. How is asking someone to be your coach for a limited duration of time in any way similar to getting married?
In order to understand this conversation better, we need to take a closer look at the overall context and what was said in Japanese.
After the two men run up to each other and hug at the airport, the conversation goes like this:
Translation: Yuri… I’ve been thinking about what I can do as your coach from now on.
Translation: Me, too.
Translation: Please be my coach until I retire!
Translation: It’s almost like a marriage proposal.
Translation: I wish you’d never retire.
Translation: Let’s win gold together at the Grand Prix Final.
During the scene, soft piano music plays in the background, and Yuri is tearful, as if he has been overcome by bittersweet emotions. One thing, above all, is strongly implied by this conversation: Yuri is planning to retire soon, most likely as soon as the Grand Prix Final is over. Yet until that time, he wants to stay by Victor’s side, unconditionally.
His wording when he asks Victor to stay with him is particularly worth focusing on here, because this is the part that actually does sound rather romantic.
Here’s the thing: Yuri doesn’t explicitly ask Victor to be his coach here. He says, “onegaishimasu!” which is a humble way of saying please. It’s a fairly general expression to use when you’re introducing yourself to someone, asking for a favor, or entrusting yourself to someone’s care. Yet because of the vagueness of the expression, it could mean any number of things when used in isolation.
It’s worth noting that Yuri is using a contracted version of a common polite expression. Onegaishimasu makes up part of the phrase douzo yoroshiku onegaishimasu (or yoroshiku onegaishimasu). Not only is that a mouthful to say, it also sounds a bit too distant and formal for Yuri and Victor’s relationship. It’s common to just say yoroshiku between friends, but because Yuri sees himself as a student of Victor’s, onegaishimasu hits the right note for their relationship.
The Crunchyroll translation was not wrong when it made this line of dialogue about coaching. The sentences before this line were clearly talking about coaching, after all. In Japanese conversation, it’s extremely common to omit words when they’re understood by the participants. Both Yuri and Victor understand that coaching is the subject of their conversation, so there’s no need for either of them to state it after it was initially mentioned. The translator is usually not making things up or adding things willy-nilly by providing more information than a particular Japanese sentence does in isolation.
So, it’s not wrong to translate “Boku no koto onegaishimasu” as “Please be my coach.” But the context also tells us that Yuri can’t just be talking about coaching, because otherwise Victor would not compare it to a marriage proposal. Yuri is likely talking about a more general kind of mentorship rather than just skating instruction. In previous episodes, we have seen Victor provide emotional support, and even in this episode we see them acting physically and emotionally intimate. “Please be my coach” has a greater significance for them than it would for mere acquaintances.
If you’re a romantic, you’ll be happy to know that the phrase onegaishimasu also gives the impression that Yuri is entrusting the entirety of his being to Victor. In an indirect fashion, Yuri is asking Victor to stay by his side until the end. It’s a very Japanese way of expressing strong feelings. As an outsider, Victor is much more direct, but he understands Yuri well enough to read the subtext behind his words.
And that, in short, is where the “It’s almost like a marriage proposal” line comes from.
Japanese can be a difficult language to get one’s head around, especially in cases like these where the language and cultural conventions are intertwined so closely. For all the physical closeness between Yuri and Victor, their dialogue may seem strangely vague and distant in translation. But it’s also very characteristic of the Japanese language to express strong feelings in vague terms. This may seem like one of those cases where the intent is lost in translation, but if you look at the Japanese dialogue closely, Yuri really was asking Victor to be his coach… in the most romantic way possible.
Special thanks to @karice67 for translation-related feedback and assistance.
I’m on fire over this explanation, also this show and this scene and 🔥🔥🔥
I love how they just get and understand each other, their relationships just so aaah 😻😻
Don’t remind me that Yuuri is going to retire after the Grand Pix I STILL DON’T KNOW WHY AND I WANT THEM MARRIED AND DUO SKATING, SOBS 😭😭
I’m wondering how you feel after episode 10 ;)
I’M DEAD, RIP, BURIED, I’M 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭✨
STAY ALIVE FOR NEXT EPISODE AT LEAST
I feel so much cringe with how my name is used. I demand …..er what should I demand?
Right, I demand a cute pettan oneechan to propose to me instead!
Wow, I had no idea you were a famous ice skater. you gotta give me some tips
sadly,i’m like those fishes on ice you see at supermarket.
Probably still better than a frog
I also heard echoes of some of the more traditional ways of proposing in Japan in those lines of dialogue, which are things like “will you make me miso soup for the rest of my life?” and “will you share my grave with me?” I just immediately assumed that was what Victor meant when he said it sounded like a marriage proposal.
Japanese courtship can be so quaint, huh?
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I saw a post from tumblr a while back saying that the english translation wasn’t entirely correct. It said it was more along the lines of “until i retire, please take care of me” or “until i retire, i leave myself in your care” and it said that that was what actually sounded like a marriage proposal, according to japanese tradition. I went to search up more on this to understand it better and your explanation was an amazing and detailed one! Thank you! Also, this scene, even in the english dub and sub, made me tear up- I’d probably sob a bit if the translation was actually perfect <'3
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I was scrolling on tik tok and stumbled on a vid of Yuri and victor doing the nasty I don’t remember there being an episode with that or maybe that just skipped my mind. can someone please tell me if that really happened !